If sustaining intimacy is becoming more difficult, there are many approaches that can help. Satisfying sex depends on several things: presence of desire, arousal, absence of pain, and an ability to reach orgasm. After menopauselibido declines, and changes in our bodies can make it difficult to get aroused, painful to have intercourse, and impossible to climax. It's little wonder that many women become dissatisfied with sex, and some avoid intimacy entirely. Several years ago, a large national survey found that sexual activity fell precipitously with age.
Femininity without intercourse is still sex. Actual sex. Satisfying sex. Hot sex. Femininity is any activity that arouses you and brings you sexual pleasure.